Thoughts create actions and actions create the life we live. We are the grand total sum of everything that we have ever experienced and how we reacted to the situation.
When some so-called negative event occurs in our life we have a choice, we can let it define us, destroy us or it can strengthen us, the choice is ours. It does no good to be upset about it, it is over and done with and can’t be changed, you need to move on and learn from it.
We all get into destructive relationships, it is a fact of life, those relationships are brought to us so we can learn and grow. Sometimes the people who give us the most grief are the ones who love us the most and are trying to teach us something, while they themselves are also learning. They may not always have the most altruistic motives in mind as they are also dealing with karma and how you react will also affect their growth and have a positive effect on their evolution.
By setting boundaries on their behaviour and how it affects you, you are teaching them an important lesson. They need to learn they can’t always have their way, especially if it affects someone else in a negative light.
We can’t change the past, stop regretting was done way back when. The road to success is always under construction,and there are detours, but you need to start doing the things today that will improve your life tomorrow.
By constantly striving to improve your life and remembering that we often take two steps forward and one backward, sooner or later you will create the life you desire. Change normally comes when we least expect it and sometimes the outcome won’t be exactly the way we envisioned it, but it will be better than you ever imagined.
Earth is often called the “School House” of life. We come here to learn and grow. The opportunity for growth is faster and more intense on this planet than on many others. That is why we all came here. Our lessons could be learned at a slower rate in other realms, but we all chose this plane of existence to be able to attain this phase of our evolution as quickly as possible.
Learning through so called negative experiences is just part of the game plan. An incentive to learn is the knowing that once the lesson is finally completely, the negativity will also be complete and we can move on to more pleasant surroundings.
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His travels have taken him to most of the United States, as well as Australia, Belize, Egypt and the Canary Islands.
He has studied the Mayan culture of Central America as well as the aborigines of Australia. Photography has given him the opportunity to observe life in various parts of the world.
He has published several books about his adventures.
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There is an extreme shortage of common sense in today’s world, When looking back in history, I soon discovered this has always been a problem, Benjamin Franklin once said, ”Of all the senses, common sense seems to be the one that is used the least.” As obvious as it may seem, many seem to be totally oblivious to it. Most, if not all of the problems the world faces today could be solved if people would just sit back and think about what would seem to be the most obvious and simple solution to any issue. Often times people tend to overcomplicate the issues. I often think back to what my parents and grandparents believed and said, at the time I thought they were totally out of their mind and ignored it. I now wish I would have listened and followed their advice. It is now evident they were a lot smarter than we gave them credit for. Many times, in today’s world, the schools and universities can no longer be counted on to teach truth and values that will guide someone through life.